The year is 2001. I return from a vacation in Bali and land at Schiphol Airport in Amsterdam. On the final leg home to Sweden, I meet a man on the plane who shares his life story with me. He tells me about how he and his family took a bold step and moved abroad. They now live in Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia. He, his wife, and their two sons sold everything in Sweden to venture into the unknown.
The Swedish Community Abroad
When they arrive in their new home country, they, like many other Swedes abroad, feel somewhat lost. It is a new culture, a new language, and a new way of life. To create a sense of security and belonging, they seek out the Swedish Church, a place where Swedes meet not only to maintain traditions but also to build social and professional networks.
It turns out that most Swedes in Kuala Lumpur have done the same. Those who move abroad often seek each other out, and it is not uncommon for the people gathered in these networks to be high-level business executives, entrepreneurs, and specialists in various fields. By being part of this community, they receive support, advice, and opportunities they might never have dreamed of otherwise.
From Nobody to Somebody – How Networks Change Lives
His wife, who initially had nothing specific to do in their new homeland, casually mentioned in a conversation that she had previously taught a men’s fashion course in interior design. A small remark in passing, but one that would change their lives. Shortly thereafter, he receives a call. A Swedish bank with an office in Asia wants him to bring his wife to a meeting. At the meeting, she is asked, "Can you help us refresh the office’s interior design?"
She says yes, and their life takes a turn. What started as an uncertain future in a new country evolves into a career. She becomes the bank’s head of interior design for all of Asia, and suddenly, a temporary solution transforms into a life-changing opportunity.
Being Swedish Abroad – An Identity That Opens Doors
There is a paradox in leaving Sweden: at home, you are nobody, but abroad, you are Swedish first and foremost. Suddenly, you are no longer defined solely by your title, job, or education – you represent a country with a strong international reputation.
This is something I have personally experienced. Today, as I live in Bulgaria, I see clearly how my Swedish identity helps me open doors. People see me as part of something larger, as a representative of a country known for innovation, trust, and professionalism. Just as in Kuala Lumpur, the Swedish network also functions here – slowly but surely, I build connections, establish trust, and find pathways forward that I might never have discovered had I remained in Sweden.
The Invisible Capital – Networks and Trust
Why is it that Swedes abroad are often seen as competent and courageous? One factor is that moving itself is seen as an achievement. Leaving one’s home country, security network, and familiar routines requires a certain kind of person. It signals ambition, determination, and an ability to adapt to new situations. These qualities are highly valued in professional settings, creating an inherent credibility.
Another factor is the trust often associated with Swedes internationally. We have a reputation for being reliable, hard-working, and competent. This means that when we step into a new environment, there is an expectation that we will deliver. In many ways, it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy – because we are perceived as trustworthy and professional, we tend to act that way, further reinforcing our reputation.
The Power of Networking and the Role of Chance
The story I heard on the plane home from Bali is far from unique. Many who move abroad find their way through networks and coincidences. A conversation at a dinner, a meeting at an embassy, or a casual remark among Swedes can lead to a new career, a new business, or a life-changing opportunity.
It is also a reminder of the importance of saying yes. Had his wife declined the bank’s request, their life might have looked completely different today. It is about being open to opportunities and understanding that taking chances is how we grow.
Living Between Two Worlds
For many Swedes who move abroad, a feeling of living between two worlds emerges. On one hand, there is love for Sweden, its traditions, language, and culture. On the other, there is the new homeland, with its opportunities, challenges, and attractions. It can be a delicate balance, but for those who manage to integrate into both worlds, there is a unique advantage – they can take the best of both and create something new and stronger.
Conclusion: The Courage to Take the Leap
This story serves as a reminder that the world is full of opportunities for those who dare to take the leap. Moving abroad is not always easy, but it is a pathway to personal and professional development.
The Swedish network, our national identity, and the trust we have built as a people mean that we are often met with respect and curiosity in other countries. Doors open, opportunities arise, and for those ready to seize them, a whole new life can take shape.
I see it myself in Bulgaria – just as the man on the plane saw it in Malaysia. Swedish first, everything else second. And that is a strength.
By Chris...
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